Here is an idea that I have developed for people to help build their confidence when in a conversation and give them a mental framework to further improve their conversations.

 Generally, when you enter into a conversation with someone both you and the other personal have your own agendas. The person who usually controls the conversation is the person who will generally fulfill their agenda first.

Here at Rapport Key I like to help my readers by giving them another way at viewing how to hold their conversations.

So I was out the other night and ended up talking to a girl at the bar.

I told her that, aside from other things, I blog about communication skills and building rapport. This led us on a long winding conversation on sexual communication skills while at a public setting such as the bar we were sitting at.

When the conversation turned to eye contact she told me something I’ll never forget.